Author Interview - Abel Keoghby Tristi Pinkston | More from this Blogger 15 Jul 2008 01:45 AM
Abel, your book, "Room for Two," talks about a tragedy that took place earlier in your life, the suicide of your seven month pregnant wife. How did you arrive at the idea to write a book about this? Most of the motivation to write "Room for Two" was because of the lack of well-written, compelling books about losing a spouse. The books I read about the subject were poorly written accounts that seemed to be the author's attempt to immortalize the late husband or wife or lecture others about how to move on. I couldn't relate to them. I knew I had a story that could go beyond those who have lost a spouse or a loved one to suicide. The trick was telling the story in such a way that it could touch them as well. Was the writing therapeutic, or painful? The writing was therapeutic but I didn't write "Room for Two" thinking it would be. The first draft was probably the most beneficial but it was also poorly written. To make the story worth reading, I had to distance myself emotionally from the book and make sure I was telling a story that others would enjoy. As you have maintained your blog and promoted your book, have you found that your experiences have helped others in similar situations?
How did your faith play into overcoming this event? The fact that I knew I would see my wife and daughter again in the next life kept me going when I had a hard time getting out of bed in the morning. The occasional reassurances I received after a long prayer gave me the emotional strength to keep going. Also, just knowing that God and his Son understood what I was going through and loved me helped tremendously. What are you working on now? I just completed the first draft of my next book - a work of fiction. The working title is "Angel of Light." My goal is to have a publishable manuscript by summer's end. Thank you for joining us today, Abel, and thank you for writing such a touching book. If you would like to learn more about Abel, you can visit his website here. Related Blogs: Author Interview - Laura Jensen Walker Learn more about Tristi Pinkston  I've been a blogger for Families.com since August of 2006. Relevantmedia tags User Comments  Candace Salima (1604) 15 Jul 2008 07:01 AMTristi - thanks for posting this interview with Abel Keogh. I read "Room for Two" a few months ago and was really touched by the story of a man who lost his wife and child to suicide and had to struggle to live, coping with being the man left behind. Wow. It is a powerful book, and oddly, one full of hope.  Tristi Pinkston (10839) 15 Jul 2008 10:22 AMI found it uplifting too, despite his tragic circumstances. Community Tags depression, hope, marriage, suicide, self-help, widower Discuss this article
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I've received emails from people all over the world thanking me for writing "Room for Two." Some of them had lost a spouse while others a loved one to suicide and it has helped them realize that it's possible to move on and find peace. However, the majority of the responses have been from people who haven't lost a spouse. "Room for Two" has helped them appreciate their families and blessings more. They realize that every moment with their loved ones is a gift that should be treasured.
